And So It Begins…

The panic that comes with a new home purchase has set in at Casa Gates. And it’s a bit more intense than any previous home purchases because of two factors 1) this will be the first time I renovate anything for myself and 2) I’m leaving the city for the burbs in less than one month. Reason 1 is much, much more prominent as I am not entirely brokenhearted about where we are moving to.  But trying to plan a renovation (with the tireless work of my dad) is daunting, scary and really, really stressful.  And I do this for a living! But when it’s your space and your money it’s a whole other ball game. And I have to say as much as being a professional in the design field is a bonus, it also can be a huge hindrance too.  Seeing so many options day in and day out in my work has left me COMPLETELY unable to make decisions. Like, picking a single paint color has left me a bumbling idiot.  Looking at floor plans and seeing how much work has to be done while we are living there renders me nearly to tears. Was this a bad purchase? Will we be able to make money when we sell it? Will I be able to afford the work? What wallpaper do I want in my powder room??? A billion questions run through my head daily and cause my blood pressure to rise.  So I thought I’d make a little board of the things I know I do want and love for sure as a jumping off point, much like I do for a client.  This made me realize I really DO need to treat myself as a client- developing boards, options and taking the time to really work through my ideas to come up with the best concept.  So here’s a few things to get me started…. and so far, I’m my biggest pain in the ass client to date. :)

1). I know I have to have the Hicks Pendants in my kitchen. I want the two tone ones accented with brass, Andrew hates brass. I want to do brushed brass hardware in the kitchen to match, Andrew would rather poke his eyes out. This is causing some strife.

2) I am 99% sure I am going to do light to medium grey lower cabinets and white upper cabinets with Carrara counters and white subway with grey grout as a backsplash. Now finding cabinets I can afford is the next step.

3) As much as my navy sofa photographs well and is cozy in the winter, it’s going to go in our basement den. We need a sectional to be comfortable while watching TV, it’s a truth that I just have come to accept. Having one like Sheryl Crow’s would be awesome.  I found it here.

4) I have to reupholster a chair like this. Have to.

5) BRASS! Ha, ha, ha Andrew!  The coffee table will be glass and brass, end of story. (I sense this might end up going the way of the Great Lucite Fight of 2009 in which I stormed out of a restaurant (slightly inebriated) when Andrew said no lucite would ever come into our home. Cut to now and my lucite entry table. I win.)

6) Already bought the West Elm Souk rug for the living room. This house is SMALL, so I want it to be very serene and only shades of grey, white, black, natural wood and lots of texture.

7) LOOOOOOVE this Robert Abbey ceiling light for a bedroom or hall.

8) The dining room really is suited for a round table as it’s square, but I’ve always wanted a modern farm table like the Crate & Barrel one here. With all the marble in the kitchen  it would soften it up. We shall see.

9) In the sunroom I WILL use Peter Dunham’s Fig Leaf somewhere!

10) I have loved these pink quartz lamps from Shades of Light forever and would love them for the guest room.

11) Cole & Sons Hicks Hexagon wallpaper might be the winner for the tiny powder room. But worried it might be dizzying.

12) Still love the wall color I chose for my current bedroom Behr’s Elephant Skin, and think I want to stay with the rich grey and linen palette for this bedroom.

13) Swing arm lamps for the master since we both are avid readers and it would be so much nicer than table lamps.

14) Speaking of bedside tables, I really really love these West Elm ones.

Thoughts? Similar experiences? Talk me off this cliff, people.

60 Responses to “And So It Begins…”

  1. I cannot wait to see how it all comes together for you! I love your prelim kitchen concept and dream about redoing my kitchen daily (total lack of funds aside). I’ve lived in my Boston-suburbs house for three years and I can tell you – it’s so fun, so much work – and you will no doubt change your mind a 100 times! (even AFTER it’s done!)

  2. Archana says:

    Congratulations on ur new home!I luv ur style. I am so excited for u…I will be follwing along ur journey..

  3. Sam says:

    Having a VERY similar experience right now! Happy to know I’m not alone!

  4. Sarah Scales says:

    I have the same concept for my kitchen – grey cabinets with antique brass hardware…. I can’t wait to see how your turns out!

  5. Moko says:

    I was wondering if you ever considered changing the layout of your website?
    Its very well written; I love what youve got to say.
    But maybe you could a little more in the way of content so people could connect with it better.
    Youve got an awful lot of text for only having 1 or two images.
    Maybe you could space it out better?

  6. julie says:

    Looks gorgeous. I just had the brass coffee table delivered to a client’s house..It looks beautiful. Good Luck Erin!
    xo, Julie

  7. Kate says:

    I know what you mean – I am really great at helping others to choose paint colours but can never make a decision myself! I love your style and all of the items you have shown here so I know it will be gorgeous and I can’t wait to see what kind of style you go for. Kate xo

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  9. amyks says:

    Hi Erin,
    We recently finished a whole home renovation and while I am not a designer, nor is my husband we did the whole thing practically on our own. We used Designer Cabinetry in Newton to help us figure out all the cabinetry in the whole house. They were reasonable and had lots of choices. We did more a more modern kitchen and went with the Pedini line, but they were really great to work with. Good luck with all your decisions, I know it can be really nerve wracking.

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