This week I got a text from a close girlfriend of mine going through a tough break-up with her boyfriend- who turns out, is quite possibly the cad of the century. She jokingly said “Hey, can you Fashion Friday me up an outfit that says ‘eat you heart out’?” I laughed and then thought- hell, why not? Who HASN’T had a time in their life when they wanted to wear a fierce outfit that makes you look so good (but not like you are trying too hard-god forbid) that if you ran into your ex it would make him writhe painfully in regret? Bingo- we’ve all been there. So here’s my choice for a “suck it, you loser” outfit for a night out with the girls. This knee length nude dress looks modest enough from the front, but is open backed to reveal just enough skin without looking trashy. Topping it off with a destroyed denim jacket dresses it down in a cool way, as does adding some leopard heels that say “on the prowl”. Sexy dangly earrings, a stack of boho bangles, a cool as hell clutch, a smokey eye/nude lip and slightly messy , loose hair finish it off- making you the perfect combination of sexy/cool/fun/low maintenance. And don’t forget about a blush-worthy pair of undies- Spanx are the antithesis of sexy, so forgo them. Knowing you have something pretty on underneath all that other prettiness helps your confidence. Trust me.
So sexy, and the clutch is divine! I hope she bumps into him one day when she’s wearing something this fierce and has a hot guy on her arm. I’ve bumped into two exes while walking around Boston, fortunately with my hubby on my arm, but both times I was NOT wearing anything good.
Should we all have the face of Daria when confronting exes! :)
Yes we should! :)
Love the clutch and the shoes!
love your choices. sorry your friend is going through a tough time. wearing this outfit it will be in the past but quick.!
Haha. I meant to write “shouldn’t we.” Seriously. She is one of my all time favorite models. Italian Glamour did a spread on her apartment in NY a while ago. It is as cool and bohemian messy as she is.
Actually there is a thread on models apartments on The Fashion Spot. I just love it.
shoes are killer! you made my day :)
Great outfit! Love the panties- Nice touch ;)
Oh hunny you nailed it!!! what a great outfit! =D
LOVE THIS!!
Love the dress, shoes and earrings!
Any chance you know who makes the dress or where I can get one like that, maybe in black too?
Oh wow… the details popped up when I clicked on the pic! How cool is that! Thanks!!!!
I love it (though I’m a fan of Spanx. I often feel better about how I look when my foundation garmets are helping out. )
I would love to see the cads face when he sees her. It is is a sure win.
So darn cool,but cute also,drat the cad,but taking this assertive route will minimize the pain!Love the “eat your heart out” outfit,the subtle color of the dress and the complimentary layers. You are so good!
Heard that!! Loooove that you chose a red lacy panty! And animal print heels! Perfect for some sass!
What a great friend you are… love this!!
It’s been a while since those days, but we never forget. You are a sweet friend and anyone who has been there knows friends are what makes the difference. Thanks for the post.
Gwen
Ragland Hill Social
Your friend is lucky to have you. And I applaud your outlook that sexy undies and confidence gives more support than Spanx any day!!!
love this!! i have a fashion friday request: i have an upcoming casual date in nyc. it’s supposed to be rainy and cold, so i want to wear my black hunter wellies. can you plan a cute/comfy/chic and warm look around a pair of hunters?
I absolutely loved this article. Specially because I’m going through a divorce and needed it so badly! I sent to all my girlfriends and they said it was right on. I’ll get all the elemnets together and we are hitting town!
By the way do you have any suggestions as to how to dress to impress and make your ex “eat your heart out” at deposition with attorneys and court clerks? I’d love to see some of your ideas!
Thanks
You blog is absolutely awesome!
Katia